People help me a lot. I often do not like asking for help. I have often not liked asking for clarification. I have resisted this. Here is something I am learning.

Whatever points in a conversation where I pause the speaker, repeat back what is being said, and frame it, I actually understand it (!). Understanding something is a really big deal, and something I do not take lightly. There is a generousity of self in asking, and there is a generousity in answering.

Tile from inside the hole of Víctor Delfín